Monday, April 1, 2013

Actual Day Itinerary

Its been a while since I've blogged a decent post so I've decided to do a double post today!

Here's a pretty accurate gauge of my actual day itinerary. I'm gonna pray everyone can be on time, no vehicle breakdowns etc cause we're really tight on schedule!

TimeActivity
0500-0515Bride / Groom wake up
0515-0530Wash up / Get ready
0530-0545Brothers arrive at groom's place
Sisters arrive at bride's place
Makeup artist arrive at bride's place
Videographer arrive at bride's place
Photographer arrive at bride's place
0545-0600Driver arrive at groom's place
Sisters get ready
"Groom's door opener" arrive at bride's place
0600-0615 
0615-0630Groom and brothers arrive at bride's place
0630-0645Groom take photos with brothers
0645-0700Gate crash start!
0700-0715Gate crash
0715-0730Gate crash
0730-0745Take photos with brothers & sisters
0745-0800Bride, groom, brothers & sisters leave for groom's place
Bride's door opener arrive at groom's place
0800-0815 
0815-0830*****Groom & bride arrive at groom's place
0830-0845Eat tangyuan, etc customary stuff
0845-0900Brothers change into shirts and suits
0900-0915Leave for Little Guilin photoshoot
0915-0930 
0930-0945 
0945-1000Arrive back at groom's place
1000-1015Chill / cool down
1015-1030 
1030-1045 
1045-1100 
1100-1115Start tea ceremony at groom's place
1115-1130 
1130-1145 
1145-1200 
1200-1215 
1215-1230Bride change into tea dress
Leave for bride's place
1230-1245 
1245-1300Start tea ceremony at bride's place
1300-1315 
1315-1330 
1330-1345 
1345-1400Leave for hotel
1400-1415Check in hotel
1415-1430 
1430-1445 
1445-1500 
1500-1515 
1515-1530 
1530-1545Makeup artist arrive
1545-1600 
1600-1615 
1615-1630 
1630-1645 
1645-1700*****Refer to setup checklist
Brothers and sisters arrive at hotel to setup
Bride's family arrive
Groom's mother arrive
1700-1715Bride's mother, sister and groom's mother do makeup
1715-1730Makeup!
1730-1745Photographer arrive at hotel
Take some photos in hotel
1745-1800Videographer arrive at hotel
Rest of groom's family arrive
Bride's brother family arrive
1800-1815*****Refer to solemnisation guest list & plan
Solemniser arrive
Guest arrive
1815-1830Solemnisation start
1830-1845 
1845-1900Move décor into ballroom
Bride change into gown
1900-1915*****Refer to dinner guest list & plan
Groom await guests
1915-1930Bride arrive downstairs
1930-1945*****Refer to seating plan
Guests be seated by 1945
1945-2000*****Refer to dinner plan
Dinner start
Bride and groom 1st march in
2000-2015Serve 1st dish
2015-2030Groomsmen x 2 bring angbao boxes up to safe and lock
Serve 2nd dish
2030-2045Serve 3rd dish
Bride & groom leave to change
2045-2100Serve 4th dish
2100-2115*****Refer to dinner plan
Montage
Bride & groom 2nd march in
Serve 5th dish
2115-2130Serve 6th dish
Thank you speeches
2130-2145Serve 7th dish
Start going rounds to take photos
2145-2200Serve 8th dish
Take photos
2200-2215 
2215-2230Thank guests


To be updated with the solemnisation and dinner plan!

Bargains for your bridal package!

After reading a couple of older posts, I realized I haven't posted anything on the bridal packages. Here's a guideline of what you may request from the bridal studio you have decided on when bargaining in no sequential or order of importance. :)

1. Photos selection (Soft copy & printed). Its usually 30-36 photos for a mid range package.

2. Free design & re-designing of layout (How your photos are arranged, printed out, the effects etc)

3. Free addition of pages if you purchase/choose to have more photos printed and wish to have photos spread out. Some bridal studios charge $120 per page if you overflow into a new page. Therefore, if the album you've chosen has 4 folds x double sides (my case), it'll be $120 x 4 folds x 2 sides = $960. This is a trap you shouldn't allow yourself to fall into. - Refer to No. 36

4. Rental of OTR (Off-the-rack) x 1 Solemnisation dress

5. Rental of OTR x 1 Solemnisation suit

6. Rental of OTR x 1 Wedding gown (Actual day) - Refer to No. 14

7. Rental of OTR x 1 Tea dress / Kwa (Actual day) - Refer to No. 14

8. Rental of OTR x 2 Evening gowns (Actual day) - Refer to No. 14

9. MTM (Made-to-measure) gown if you don't find anything you like off their racks FOC

10. 4R photos x 100 pcs (Repeated ones from your selection in No. 1)

11. Mini album of selected photos (No. 1) x 1

12. Table portrait of selected photo from No. 1 x 1 with FRAME

13. Wedding portrait of selected photo from No. 1 x 1 with FRAME

14. Open choice of gowns (All ranges)

15. Open choice of covers and laminates or material used at no additional costs

16. Rental of wedding car (They usually charge $300 for a Mercz-300 with petrol & driver)

17. Pick your photographer

18. Pick your make up artist

19. Transportation for day of photoshoot

20. Free re-shoot if you're not satisfied with photos

21. 3-5 Outdoor locations

22. 2-3 Indoor shoots

23. Different makeup/looks for all outfits

24. MTM x 1 pants for groom

25. Rental of suits x 2 for groom (Actual day)

26. No charges for over-time shoot at night

27. No charges for early shoot - Both the photographer and makeup charged me $120 EACH for coming in 2 hours earlier. :(

28. Rental of suits for groomsmen (Actual day)

29. Rental of dresses for bridesmaids (Actual day)

30. Rental of suit x 1 for both fathers (Actual day)

31. Rental of dress x 1 for both mothers (Actual day)

32. Open choice of car decoration

33. Open choice of hand bouquet (Actual day)

34. Open choice of corsages for family and bridesmaids (Actual day)

35. Makeup and hairstyling x 2 for bride (Actual day)

36. Some bridal studios allow returning of ALL photoshoot soft copies - If not, "under-table" through your photographer.

37. Wedding banner x 1 (Actual day) - This is for placing at your wedding venue foyer to notify guests which ballroom/floor it is

38. Trial makeup x 2 (Day & Night makeup)

39. MTM shirt x 1 for groom - Not all bridal studios offer that

40. No early charges for makeup artist (Before 6-7am on actual day) - Mine charges $100 per hour you require her to come before 7am! *Slaps forehead*

41. No early charges for drivers (Actual day) before 7am too!

42. Photographer and videographer for actual day (I don't think the quality will be very good though) - Its easier for photographs to be captured if models hold still. But its a whole new ball game for candids and captures on the move. Just my two cents worth.

43. Open choice of flowers for all following cars (Actual day)

44. Outfits x 5-6 for bride on day of photoshoot - Refer to No. 14

45. Suits/Outfits x 2-3 for groom on day of photoshoot


I think that's all for a mid to high range bridal package. I didn't manage to get all of the above for mine. Didn't perform enough research before we settled on the package. Of course, this is just a guideline. However, my colleague managed to get ALL of the above for $3k-ish (I feel like bawling my eyes out!)

But, of course. It also depends on type of bridal studio you've engaged. A general rule of thumb is to view the gowns they have (usually prepared in an ipad) and photos of actual couples they have printed as samples before wasting time to bargain. Hahaha.

Hope this entry will help some poor brides-to-be in getting their moneys worth!